Just a non fictitious tale for us to ponder;
Recently a friend of mine has been sharing her heart breaking moment she had with her boyfriend. She's been telling how the boyfriend was being nice all this time. He showered her with love, bring her to lovely places to dine, gave her the best birthday present ever. Just like all the good boyfriends do.
But a really good boyfriend offers more than that eh - honesty. Once you're being dishonest to your partner, no matter how expensive you birthday gift to her was, it'll be meaningless. And in this case, it happened more than just once. You don't say that she didn't give him a chance to repent and fix things he'd ruined, because she did. And what she gained? The same repeated mistakes happened over and over again. 4 years full of wasted energy and drained emotions. She now chooses to move on.
Sad :( I know the hard feelings she’s going through, hope she's coping well.
I just want to relate the story to every one of us that, in any kind of a serious relationship, there's no promise that it's going to be last forever, or enter the state of marriage. Even 4 or 10 years of sharing love with each other, if it’s not your jodoh, it stays not. You knew that, we all knew.
Therefore later in life, if such things that ever happened to my friend occurring to me or even you, anggap saja lah jodoh tak ada. Mungkin Allah nak reward kita with someone better in the end of the day. As the saying goes, there will always be a rainbow after the rain.
Sorry to burden you with the serious talking, this is what early-20s-women do. Pity.
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